Believe it or not (you probably believe it), your nails are often one of the biggest indicators of your lifestyle and sometimes even your health. And if your precious fingers have assumed a yellow-ish tint these days — either due to aging, working the yard, or an affinity for back-to-back gel manicures that stain over time — we literally spotted a bright idea for that! Enter Londontown’s Mani Bright Nail Scrub, a whitening kit paste and a scrub brush designed to restore your nails back to their glory days. Even better, it’s only $24 for a salon-level transformation that can take a few years off your fingernails.

In case you didn’t know, yes, your nails can simply yellow with age or due to underlying health conditions like yellow nail syndrome, which typically affects folks 50 years or older.

“I’m almost 70 and I noticed my toenails were getting a tinge of yellow,” one shopper wrote of their natural manicure experience. “So I tried this stuff in the shower and it worked really well.”

“My nails looked young again, without any yellowish tone,” another reviewer, Tallulah Belle, vouched.

Known for its $20 milky nail concealer that helps conceal your imperfections underneath a shockingly natural sheen (HuffPosters LOVE IT), Londontown’s Mani Bright nail kit is designed to remove the color issue altogether. Easy to use, it’s a mere two-step restoration process that involves the scrub solution and a brush. The scrub formula features calcium carbonate to remove the odd colors, sodium bicarbonate to boost whitening plus citrus extract to naturally brighten.

“This is a definite YES!” another reviewer wrote. “So easy and works GREAT! Nail polish had my nails looking dull and yellowing and now they are great even after the first use! I will definitely continue purchasing this one!”

Results are so impressive, it leaves reviewers wishing they had documented their journey using the brightening kit sooner. “Whoa, this stuff really works,” says one thrilled user. “I wish I had taken a photo before and after. I didn’t think about it till after I used it. My nails look so white and bright. Very impressed with this product…”

“This is so handy,” one card-carrying green thumb holder, Lori, shared. “Even though I wear garden gloves I like to scrub my nails after gardening. Perfect!”

“Nice and compact,” another reviewer shared. “Can put in a travel bag for convenience of use. Especially great for hands and nails after gardening. The shape is perfect with the cleaning soap to get under nails and into the crevices of nail beds for a clean job.”

And it’s not just gardeners who benefit: it’s for folks who tend to get messy in the kitchen or seem to use their hands for a range of DIY purposes (basically, a significant chunk of the population). “It sure does whiten the ends of your nails,” says one pleased shopper. “The underneath of my nails are stained from picking weeds in the garden, cooking, etc., (mustard REALLY stains them), and generally speaking using my fingernails as screwdrivers. I used this product one time, scrubbing the underneath of my nails with the brush and the difference was amazing.”

“Best analogy is like going to a dentist and getting a professional teeth cleaning. The results were night & day,” another shopper wrote.

Now that’s worth every penny.

“I’m almost 70 and I noticed my toenails were getting a tinge of yellow. So I tried this stuff in the shower and it worked really well.” — Ron

“I have been using this product for almost two weeks and I see so much of a difference in my nails. My nails look so much brighter and cleaner now since I have been using the scrub. I am so glad I discovered this product and would recommend this to anyone! Definitely worth the hype!” — Yana H.

“I wasn’t sure what to expect, but this stuff actually does work! My nails were kind of yellow and lackluster, particularly at the tips, and one use made them look much cleaner and brighter. The brush that comes with it makes it easy to reach in to the tiny edges, and it didn’t dry out my nails like I feared it might. Such a nice feeling to use—definitely adding it to my routine.” — Cassidy V.

“I loved this nail brush and cleansing cream. I bought more for gifts.” — Patty

“Exceeded my expectations. My nails were stained from polish and this product worked wonderfully. The included brush is of nice quality as well.” — Whispering willow

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We all know the telltale signs that your skin isn’t aging well — sun spots, deep wrinkles and dry skin are just three things to look out for. If you’re a smoker, you may notice deeper wrinkles and dry skin. If you’ve lacked sun protection over the years, you may experience hyperpigmentation. But what are the signs that your skin is on the right path?

The aging process can look extremely different from person to person, and there can be certain noticeable signals that you’ve taken good care of your body throughout your life. Dermatologist Dr. Hadley King says that lifestyle factors such as your sleep schedule, exercise routine and stress will also contribute to how your skin ages.

We spoke with two dermatologists to help us determine the five signs your skin is actually aging well.

When it comes to your wound healing, how quickly you heal can easily show the health of your skin and how it is aging. If your skin heals from an open cut within a week or so, “This means your diet has enough protein to help with wound healing, [or that you have] a healthy immune system [or maybe] good genes,” dermatologist Dr. Lauren Moy explained. If you’re dealing with a more serious wound, it should heal within four to six weeks, per National Library of Medicine.

So how do you know if your wound is healing well? If you’ve had a cut, your body goes into repair mode to restore its skin barrier, forming a scab. This protects your wound, allowing the skin underneath it to heal. You’ll know it’s healed when your skin is fading from a pink color to closer to your skin tone, and the wound will flatten out and soften.

There are a handful of factors to consider when it comes to your skin healing from an injury, especially as you’re getting older. Two in particular are skin moisture and nutrition. Wound Care Inc. reports that moisture is extremely important for healing wounds. When skin is dry, it’s more at risk for skin lesions, infections and thickening — all of which will hinder the rate of wound healing.

When your body isn’t fueled with nutrients for cell repair and growth, your wound will heal at a slower pace. Since your body uses protein to build and repair skin, a high-protein diet can help ensure your skin is healing well. This is something to keep in mind as you age, since your skin will take longer to heal.

If your skin feels smooth the majority of the time, you can assume that your skin is aging well. This is most likely due to a lack of sun damage, as well as hydrated skin. You also probably have your skin care routine down to a T. When your skin looks and feels consistently well hydrated and not dry or itchy, this means you’re doing a good job at moisturizing well after showering or washing your face.

Oftentimes, those who have dry skin and experience scaly patches lack hydration, which prevents skin from feeling smooth. When your skin isn’t hydrated, “natural hyaluronic acid, glycosaminoglycans, and other elements of the extracellular matrix can decrease with age, making the skin less hydrated and bouncy,” King explained.

If your face is maintaining its facial volume or fat as you age, it’s a very good sign. King says that the factors that largely affect your facial volume are “sun exposure and other extrinsic aging factors, [which] can expedite the loss of healthy elastin fibers in our skin, increasing laxity and decreasing elasticity.”

“The collagen scaffolding in our skin provides skin strength and structure,” King added. So, when your facial volume is in good shape, you can guarantee that your skin has healthy collagen and elasticity. These components contribute to skin looking youthful and aging slowly.

Moy says that if you have minimal sun spots — those flat, light brown spots on your face — this means that throughout your life, your cumulative sun exposure has been minimal, and you’ve done a great job protecting your skin well.

It’s commonly known that the sun is simply not good for your skin. “Daily sun-smart behavior is one of the most important things we can do to help our skin age well,” King explained. So, if you don’t use sun protection while outside, you are more at risk of seeing uneven skin tone and discoloration. “Much of the sun damage that accumulates in our skin is the result of daily incidental sun exposure,” she added.

However, if your skin is even toned and there isn’t really any discoloration, this is a sign that your skin is aging in the ideal and healthy way. “Over time, chronic sun exposure can increase dark spots, redness and yellowish discoloration in the skin,” King said.

Another culprit of discoloration is blue light from the screens of your phone, TV and other devices. “We’re spending a lot of time on our screens lately, and we’ve learned that blue light can not only affect our sleep and harm our eyes, it can also cause discoloration and aging of our skin,” King explained.

You can take precautions by using special products that protect your skin from the effects of blue light and other environmental stressors (like these from Ilia and PCA Skin).

If you’ve abstained from smoking throughout your life, you’ve given your skin the opportunity to age properly and in a healthy way. “Smoking increases fine lines and wrinkles and leads to drier skin and many other complications deeper than the skin,” Moy explained.

Smoking can also lead to long-term effects such as uneven skin pigmentation, loss of elasticity and deep facial wrinkles. Some short-term effects of smoking can include yellowing of the fingers and nails and teeth discoloration, which may also make you look older than you are. The American Osteopathic College of Dermatology says, “It is common for the skin of a 40-year-old heavy smoker to resemble that of a 70-year-old nonsmoker.”

The original version of this story was published on HuffPost at an earlier date.

Some products go on sale frequently. Others go on sale so rarely that it feels like breaking news when the price tag drops. That’s certainly the case for Revision Skincare’s YouthFull Lip Replenisher, a luxury, peptide-infused lip balm that I credit for transforming my aging lips. It’s like no other product out there for smoothing and replenishing, and worth every penny at full price so this deal is a truly a steal. After months stubbornly sitting at full price, it’s on rare sale at 20% off as part of Amazon’s Memorial Day deal offerings, when you hit the coupon. This deal will certainly not last long, so we recommend grabbing it fast.

My lips have gotten just as much sun damage as the rest of my face over the last nearly five decades, and it was starting to show. I decided to try the YouthFull Lip Replenisher in a mission to combat signs of aging on my lips. I’m not overly bothered by wrinkles, but I do want to take care of my skin. Yet, I can’t slap retinol cream on my lips like I can on my crow’s feet. Lip skin is wildly delicate.

I figured one of the most promising lip-safe active ingredients would be peptides, given that certain peptides can have skin-restoring abilities and help address things like loss of firmness, dullness and fine lines and others are solid antioxidants. Although they don’t produce quick miracles — no skin care does — peptides can be effective, and some are gentle enough to be included in lip products. I tried a few of them, including Hailey Bieber’s peptide lip gloss (what can I say? she has good skin!), but nothing was really doing it for me.

More, the balm offers vitamins E and C and green tea, which have been studied to work well in tandem with peptides. Plus, the balm offers very solid moisturizers like shea butter.

I will note that when I first put this on, I immediately knew it wasn’t going to be a product I’d wear much during the day, despite Revisions’s guidance of applying it three times daily. It’s pretty thick and sticky (if you are constantly pulling your hair out of your lip gloss, you know the struggle).

But as one reviewer noted, this is actually the product’s superpower, because it absolutely does not budge, even if you wear it overnight. “Although some reviews complain about the tackiness of the balm, that’s actually what is so great about this product!” wrote a Dermstore customer named Lizzie. “It sticks to lips better than any other balm I’ve tried.”

I can attest to this. Each morning when I wake up, it’s still there as if I just applied it. I sleep on my side, but it doesn’t melt off or get on my pillow. The fact that it clings so hard and lasts so long gives me some assurance that all those little peptides really are hard at work while I sleep, safely ensconced on my lips in a very stay-put formula. I kept going with overnight use, and within days felt like this it was making a real difference. My lips hadn’t been in terrible shape, but they definitely seemed smoother than they’d been in years. They didn’t look wrinkly. And they certainly felt supremely healthy.

Although some reviewers do enjoy it wearing this formula as a daytime gloss, many others are using it overnight only, too, and say it makes their lipstick easier to apply the next day.

And given how little of it I have to squeeze out to give my lips a solid coat, I feel like this one tube is going to last for an almost comically long time (a relief given that $40 is way more than I typically spend on a lip balm).

Some aren’t so concerned with fine lines, and simply use it for dry, cracked lips in winter or desert climates (and they say it’s hugely effective for that).

I can’t say enough good things about Revision’s lip treatment, a sentiment that seems to be shared by everyone who’s tried it. Read more 5-star reviews and grab one for yourself while it’s on sale.

“This deserves 10 stars. I was given this as a gift from a friend, and I loved it so much I bought the regular and the tinted. Worth every single penny! Yes, it is very sticky, but I honestly prefer when glosses/balms are sticky because I feel like that helps it last all day. Plus it makes my lips feel super moisturized after taking it off. Since it’s sticky, a little goes a long way, which is such a plus given this is a little pricey!” — Marie

“After years of hearing people mention having a ‘holy grail’ product, I finally have my own. This stuff is incredible! I originally got it after having a lip moisturizing treatment done, because it was recommended as a great post-treatment maintainer, but it works fantastically all the time. I have always had great lips, but they’ve been thinning due to age. This makes them look insanely plump, incredibly moisturized, and very ‘I used a filter but in real life.’ One caveat: it is crazy sticky. That’s what keeps it on as a great all-night moisturizer, and doesn’t require constant touch-ups on a night out. But it’s definitely a hair-grabber in a windstorm. Absolutely worth it to me to just wait and put it on when I’m inside!” — Golden golden

“It actually works! My Dermatologist recommended this to me. Results are noticeable some in the beginning but with daily use (throughout the day) my lips are fuller, less wrinkles! (age 46)” — Amy Gragg

“I’ve tried so many lip masks. Laneige, Tatcha, First Aid Beauty (was amazing and now discontinued), Bite, Fresh, Ole Henricksen, Kiehl’s (tastes and smells fantastic, lasts on lips for 4 minutes)…Tarte, Buxom, Dior, was a Burt’s Bees fan for a decade. BB is nice and keeps the moisture in, but no active ingredients to nourish. Revision is serious business… I travel for work, am on planes and changing climates weekly. My lips are soft and nourished. I’m over 50, and no lip lines. **Can’t recommend strongly enough. 10/10**” — Kimberly S

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Actor Helen Mirren once told People magazine that she thinks aging and all the changes that come with it are something to embrace rather than try to hide: “I think women were just so terrified of having white or gray hair because it immediately puts them into a different category. And of course, you are in that age group. I’m sorry, but you are! So, why not just embrace it, go along with it, and welcome it? Make it a positive thing as opposed to a negative thing.”

For some, it’s a tough pill to swallow, but aging is inevitable and happens to all of us. Throughout our lives, we evolve with socially constructed beauty standards that try to dictate what we’re supposed to look like at every decade. That may lead to using hair rollers daily for perfectly bouncy curls, waxing your body monthly, or indulging in new makeup trends.

But it’s not unusual to come to a point where you don’t want to deal with the upkeep, and you simply don’t care about investing so much time and money in your appearance. This can mean letting go of decades-long rituals and routines that used to boost your confidence or even feel like a necessity — and it’s incredibly freeing.

We spoke with six women over 50 who shared the things they just don’t care about anymore and why it’s liberating.

At 50, Lisa Richards let go of almost every beauty routine she once felt committed to. “And it’s been incredibly freeing,” she said.

In her younger years, she felt like she had to do it all, including a full face of makeup, styled hair and constant upkeep. “There was this unspoken pressure to always look ‘done.’ Now, I’ve completely stepped away from that mindset,” Richards explained, adding that what changed for her is how she defines beauty. “It’s no longer about effort or perfection, it’s about ease and confidence. Letting go of all the ‘extras’ has given me my time, energy and a sense of authenticity I didn’t have before.”

For Richards, the most liberating part of getting older is that she feels prettier now at 50 than she ever did when her beauty routine was lengthy. “There’s something really powerful about no longer feeling like you have to do anything to be enough.”

Sheree Edwards, 56, is currently battling cancer and has shifted her perspective on beauty and the routines she keeps. “I’ve found myself moving away from some of the more time-intensive or ‘extra’ rituals that I used to prioritize,” she said. “I don’t bounce back the way I once did, so spending two-plus hours on manicures and pedicures, or even the physical toll of things like dyeing my hair, just isn’t something I do as often anymore.”

Her approach to makeup has evolved as well: “I used to do a full face every day, but now I focus on simplicity — if I don’t have the time or energy, I make sure I at least have my signature red lipstick on, which still makes me feel like myself. I’ve learned to embrace a little imperfection because, honestly, what’s a few extra hairs here and there?”

Karine Kazarian, 65, had always done electrolysis for hair removal; however, this is something she’s stopped as she’s gotten older. “My Armenian roots have resisted all kinds of hair removal, so I’ve surrendered and no longer care,” she explained.

She’s also moved away from heavy foundation in favor of tinted serums. In the ’90s, she would go to work with a full face of makeup, but in 2026, she prefers a fresh face with limited products.

“I’ve learned to embrace aging in a way that feels honest to me. I’m not interested in face-lifts or fillers. I believe in taking care of my skin and letting it reflect a life well lived,” Kazarian explained. “Beauty, to me, is about feeling confident in your own skin.”

Roxie Robinson, 66, no longer straightens or flat-irons her hair daily. “Aside from the damage that comes with constant heat, I’ve really learned to embrace my natural curls,” she said.

“Curly hair definitely comes with its own challenges — mainly finding the right products,” she noted. “I rotate between three different product lines depending on how my hair is behaving, and every couple of months, my stylist helps reset things with deep conditioning treatments, especially when I’m coloring.”

A few years ago, Robinson experienced significant hair loss after surgery, and her hair hasn’t been the same since: “It’s not as thick, and my curl pattern changed — but I’ve found a new appreciation for it. The ease of a wash-and-go routine, the time saved, and just letting my hair be what it is … it’s been freeing.”

As Kim Ressler, 54, has gotten older, she’s learned that letting her gray hair grow out is surprisingly empowering. “For me, it’s less about ‘giving up’ and more about simplifying and embracing what feels natural at this stage. I decided to cut my hair shorter to make the transition easier and more intentional. It takes the pressure off trying to blend everything perfectly and instead makes it feel like a style choice,” she said. “It’s been a shift in how I define beauty for myself. Less about maintenance and more about confidence.”

Sandra Davidoff, 71, had a mother who embodied the glamour of the 1950s her entire life. She had her hair done, a full face of makeup, and perfect nails. “It wasn’t vanity. It was discipline. It was who she was,” she explained. “As an only child, I watched, I learned, and I leaned in hard.”

Growing up, Davidoff believed that showing up polished every single day mattered. She knew this required a lot of work and time, but she loved every minute of it. But as she’s gotten older, the routine has scaled back a bit. “The lashes go on. The makeup gets done. But I no longer stress if I skip a day,” she said. “Less is more now. Not because I’ve let go of myself, but because I’ve grown into myself.”

And she’s proud of the natural aging on her skin because it shows just how much she has lived, which is a liberating realization that’s only grown: “Yes, I have wrinkles. I’ve lived. I’ve laughed. I’ve loved. I’ve stressed, survived, and laughed again. Every line on my face tells a story. And I love that.”

Recent HuffPost reporting revealed that readers are interested in addressing a lesser-discussed phenomenon that happens to our bodies as Father Time ticks on: “old person smell.”

Also called nonenal odors, experts have previously told us that this type of smell is different from regular BO and tends to have a mild to moderate organic or musty smell that varies from person to person.

“It typically develops as we age through the breakdown of fatty acids in skin lipids, and its production increases in both men and women starting around age 40,” said Los Angeles-based board-certified dermatologist, Dr. Maryam Safaee.

Nonenal emissions can be significantly reduced by using soaps and other skin care topicals that contain tannins (though large randomized trials are lacking to fully prove this, according to previous guidance from experts).

″[Tannins] neutralize the odor molecule after it’s already formed, block the skin process that creates it in the first place, reduce the oily secretions that fuel it, and kill the bacteria that make it worse,” Safaee said.

According to our experts and other reputable sources, tannins and tannic acid can be derived from a few different ingredients, such as willow bark, witch hazel, green tea extract, and, the one we’re most familiar with, persimmon. In fact, we’ve been documenting the popularity of one highly rated Japanese persimmon soap that claims to be formulated just for this purpose.

According to Safaee, the back of the neck is a particularly high-output area for nonenal odors due to its concentration of skin glands, so she suggests taking extra care to apply and use your desired product in that area.

You can learn more about this bar soap below, as well as other tannin-containing body and skin care products recommended by Safaee and our ingredient list-scouring team.

The experts consulted for this story do not necessarily endorse the products ahead unless otherwise noted.

If you’re past the age of 40 and still eating like the young slip of a thing you used to be (before time, life and your 15-year college reunion), aging experts would like to have a word.

While being in your 40s puts you clearly in what might be called “middle adulthood,” the specter of old age is looming on the horizon. The good news is that how you handle the next few decades can play a role in the type of old age you end up having.

We talked to experts in the study of aging and longevity to see what eating habits they noticed in their liveliest, sprightliest patients. They offered up some ideas about ways to fill your plate now to set yourself up for more daily energy and vitality now, as well as for a rich and ripe old age a few decades in the future.

Think you’ve got plenty of time before protecting your old age? Actually, these experts say your 40s are a great time to start laying a base of more nutritious choices, because what you start (or stop) doing now could extend your life expectancy significantly.

Dr. Amit Shah is a geriatrician and internal medicine physician at Mayo Clinic. He pointed to a modeling study whose results were published in the “Public Library of Science,” a peer-reviewed, open-access medical journal. “The study concluded that 40-year-olds switching from a typical Western diet to an optimal diet, with increased legumes, nuts and whole grains, along with less red meat and processed meat, could increase life expectancy by approximately 10 years for women and 11.7 years for men.”

Adding 10 years or more to your lifespan means more years to blow out birthday candles, go on vacation, take long walks with friends and spend time with grandchildren. Interested? Shah already mentioned a few examples of “optimal diet” choices that could help you get there, and we followed up by asking about specific foods and eating habits that might make the biggest difference. Here are the experts’ top picks:

Shah feels strongly that the more plants you enjoy, and the less meat you consume, the better your odds are for a long and healthy old age.

“The single dietary habit most consistently observed in individuals who age exceptionally well is long-term adherence to a predominantly plant-based, minimally processed dietary pattern,” he said.

Dr. Dariush Mozaffarian is a cardiologist, public health scientist and director of the Food is Medicine Institute at Tufts University. He says, as long as you’re not allergic to them, nuts and seeds are an incredibly healthful choice. “They’re remarkable life-giving packages of healthy fats, fibers, phenolics and other bioactives,” he said. “Gram for gram, nuts are one of the most potent foods out there, and they’re currently widely underconsumed by Americans.”

Shah agreed and included legumes (beans, lentils, peas and peanuts) as well, saying, “Based on current evidence, adding nuts and legumes to the diet may have the largest reduction in mortality based on the best studies we have.”

“I’ve learned that protein is important for building muscle, and many of us, particularly women, don’t get enough,” said Dr. Lucinda A. Harris, a professor at the Mayo Clinic Alix School of Medicine. Some researchers in longevity and geriatric nutrition, including her, think that older adults need significantly more than the current RDA for protein of 0.8 grams per kilogram of body weight, and closer to 1.2 to 1.6 grams per kilogram. An example is a 150-pound person whose RDA is 54 grams of protein per day, but would need almost double that amount, about 109 grams of protein, to reach 1.6 grams per kilogram.

This matters because adequate protein plus exercise is needed to build muscle mass. “Building muscle helps prevent insulin resistance, which in turn helps prevent fatty liver, a current epidemic in this country, along with obesity,” Harris said.

Dr. David Agus is a medical oncologist, CEO and founder of the Ellison Medical Institute, and author of “The Book of Animal Secrets: Nature’s Lessons for a Long and Happy Life.” He said that you should aim to chew more and sip less. “We were designed to chew food, and our GI system developed to absorb food, not shakes, smoothies or handfuls of supplements,” he said. “Once you start processing food, you get less benefit from it.” He simplified his message this way, saying: “We were made to eat oranges, not drink orange juice.”

While she’s an advocate of eating less sugar in general, Harris offered this happy thought, stating: “A little bit of dark chocolate is still good.”

It turns out that those who work with older adults have plenty of anecdotal evidence about what the lifestyle of those they notice are doing best to age happily and healthily. What do those folks have in common? One factor is maintaining a “Goldilocks” weight — not too much and not too little. Shah said, “You need to achieve balance with a healthy weight. Beyond age 65, it can be as dangerous to be underweight as it is to be overweight.”

Other longevity factors were noted by Jenny Witherspoon, a registered dietitian specializing in aging services and oncology nutrition at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center. She said there are a few key habits among those who do better in old age. “For one thing, they tend to eat mostly ‘actual food,’ not just food-like products,” she said. “I’ve noticed that movement is a normal part of their lifestyle, not an occasional reset. And they typically don’t drink alcohol.” She summed, saying, “The best agers aren’t perfect, but they’re consistent with real food, regular movement and little-to-no alcohol.”

“The diets I recommend to my patients are the Mediterranean diet, the DASH diet and the MIND diet, which combines the two to optimize brain-health and reduce risk of dementia,” Shah said. “They can all be adapted to foods in any culture.”

Agus agreed, noting that in randomized studies, “the best results are found in the Mediterranean diet.” Harris also supports the Mediterranean diet, and says that those who follow it tend to eat less processed food, more fruits and vegetables and good fats like olive oil.

Finally, Witherspoon said that the best eating plan is one that’s realistic and sustainable. “It needs to be something a person can follow consistently, so choose an evidence-based eating pattern you can stick with, and pair it with exercise for the biggest payoff,” she said. “Start with the basics, focus on consistency and build a routine you can live with.”

I sat at my kitchen table with a pen in my hand and a blank sheet of paper in front of me, like I was about to take an exam I hadn’t studied for.

At the top, I wrote: Things I Like To Do.

Then I stared at it.

Nothing came to me. No hobbies. No interests. Not even one small thing I could write without forcing it.

I laughed, more out of disbelief than humor. I’d just stepped away from a long, demanding career. Everyone told me this was the part where I finally got my life back. Now you can do what you love, they said. So I tried again the next day. Same blank page. And the day after that.

By day three, it wasn’t funny anymore. It was unsettling in a way I didn’t know how to explain without sounding ungrateful. I’d earned this freedom. I was supposed to feel relieved. Instead, I felt depressed and, honestly, a little scared.

Because the question on the blank page was bigger than hobbies: What if I don’t know who I am when I’m not needed?

For most of my adult life, my identity came with a job description. In corporate life, competence isn’t just rewarded; it becomes your personality. You become the calm one when everyone else is spinning. The one who decides under pressure. The one people rely on when the stakes are high. At home, it’s easy to slip into a similar role: the one who keeps everything moving.

You don’t wake up one day and decide to lose yourself. It happens quietly, over years. Your preferences get bumped down the list because there’s always something more urgent. You eat what works. You go where the family wants to go. You do what the job demands. You tell yourself you’ll get to you later.

And then, one day, later shows up.

After I moved to Madison, Wisconsin, and fully stepped away from my corporate career, people asked the question like it was casual.

“So what do you like to do now?”

I remember smiling like I had an easy answer. I remember my mind reaching for something, anything, and coming up empty. I said something vague and safe: “Oh, you know… I’m figuring it out.”

Then I went home and tried to actually figure it out. That’s how I ended up at the kitchen table with that blank sheet of paper.

So when the empty feeling showed up, I did what high performers do when something feels uncomfortable: I tried to solve it. I looked up hobbies like I could order a personality online. I asked friends what they did for fun and wrote their answers down like I was studying. I told myself I was just adjusting. But the truth was simpler, and harder to admit: I didn’t know what I liked because I hadn’t practiced liking things.

The depression didn’t arrive like a thunderstorm. It arrived like fog.

It was waking up with nothing urgent on the calendar and still feeling anxious. It was the guilt of having “earned” rest and not knowing what to do with it. It was wondering, in the quiet, if something was wrong with me.

One morning I stood in my closet staring at my clothes, realizing I didn’t even know how I wanted to present myself anymore. That sounds small, but it didn’t feel small.

Work had decided so much for me for so long: what mattered, where I needed to be, how I should show up. Without it, I was staring at a life with choices and no clear sense of myself as the chooser.

Eventually, I did something that wasn’t part of any plan.

I started walking.

At first, it was just a way to get out of the house — a way to move the restlessness through my body instead of letting it sit in my chest all day.

The Ice Age Trail has this steady honesty to it. It doesn’t care who you used to be. It just asks you to take the next step.

Most mornings, I’d come home from the trail with my cheeks cold, my legs awake, and my mind quieter than it had been in weeks.

And then, almost without thinking, I started journaling. It wasn’t a cute morning routine with a perfect notebook and a candle and a quote about gratitude. Mine looked more like someone trying to breathe.

Some days, it was messy. Some days, it was angry. Some days, it was one line that made me cry because it was so blunt: I don’t know who I am anymore. But the page didn’t interrupt me. It let me tell the truth. And when you tell the truth consistently, even privately, you start to hear yourself again.

At first, it wasn’t some dramatic discovery of passion. It was smaller: I started noticing what I missed, what made me feel lighter and how often I dismissed my own preferences like they were optional. Over time, the writing shifted. My scribbles started to have a pulse. They weren’t just thoughts on paper. They were stories. They were reflections. They were my voice, clearer than it had been in years.

I didn’t set out to write anything for other people. I was trying to find myself. But eventually, I shared a small piece of what I wrote. What surprised me was how many people recognized themselves in it — not with applause, but with relief.

“I thought it was just me,” I heard again and again.

That’s when I understood my story wasn’t only about retirement. It was about what happens when your life has been built around being useful, and then usefulness stops being the center of your day.

When you’re no longer performing, you finally have to face the question underneath everything: Who am I when nobody needs me?

The journaling eventually became more than journaling. It grew into writing I was brave enough to stand behind. It led to work I never expected (writing, speaking, teaching).

But the most important thing it gave me wasn’t a new career path.

It gave me myself.

I began to recognize my own preferences again. I began to trust my own voice. I began to build an identity that wasn’t borrowed from a title, a role or other people’s needs. And once I started doing that, the blank page didn’t feel like proof of failure anymore. It felt like a starting point.

If you’re reading this and thinking, That’s me. I’m in that empty place, I want to offer you the one thing I wish someone had said to me without turning it into a pep talk: The blank page doesn’t mean there’s nothing inside you. Most of the time, it means you’ve been needed for so long that you stopped listening to yourself.

But identity isn’t something you “find” like a lost wallet. It’s something you rebuild when you stop performing long enough to listen.

For me, it began with a simple rhythm: a morning workout (a walk on the Ice Age Trail or time at the gym), then a notebook, and then one honest sentence.

It wasn’t a reinvention plan or a grand announcement. Just a quiet return. And that return changed my life because it gave my days a shape again.

Most mornings, I’m up early, either out on the trail or headed to the gym. For a long time, I assumed “the gym” meant a treadmill and then going home. One day I tried a Les Mills Pump class, and I stood in the back of the studio thinking, This is not for me. Everyone looked like they knew what they were doing. I kept glancing at the clock, waiting for it to be over.

Halfway through, I realized I wasn’t counting the minutes anymore. I was paying attention. I was sweating. I was laughing at myself when I got the moves wrong, and then trying again. I walked out feeling steady and energized in a way I hadn’t felt in years. Now those classes are something I look forward to, not something I “should” do.

That surprise opened the door to other small surprises. I’ve found I like quiet, unhurried things: putting together a jigsaw puzzle at the kitchen table with a cup of tea; playing word games that give my brain something to chase (I’m embarrassingly competitive about the rankings); getting my hands in the dirt and imagining what the garden will look like after I pull the weeds and plant the flowers. I read more nonfiction now, too, and I don’t race through the pages the way I used to.

I also discovered something else I didn’t know I needed: permission to stop. Some afternoons, I take a short nap and wake up without guilt. I still can’t believe how hard that used to feel.

On weekends, I give myself permission to be “off.” I’ll take a longer walk, browse a bookstore, linger in a coffee shop or call a friend without multitasking. None of it looks impressive. That’s the point. It feels like mine.

The person I thought I’d lost wasn’t gone. She was waiting for me to come back and ask her what she wanted, without rushing past the answer.

Sometimes that’s all it takes to begin again.

Wendy C. Wilson is a Madison, Wisconsin–based writer and speaker focused on resilience, identity and leadership through adversity. After a long corporate career, she rebuilt her life in a new chapter shaped by morning walks on the Ice Age Trail and a daily writing practice. Her work has appeared in Madison Magazine, HR.com, and Tiny Buddha. She is the author of “Iron Will,” and you can reach her at wendycwilson.com.

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Few places on your body can indicate your age, lifestyle and health changes more than your eyes and the ultra-sensitive skin around them. From insomnia-imposed nights to natural aging to health conditions, the eyes are the windows to a little more than the soul, I’d argue. Luckily, we found a handy retinol eye stick that reviewers are loving for how it addresses everything from fine lines, eye bags, puffiness, dark circles and more. While they’re not saying it works exactly like Botox, they are calling it a “wonder of wonders” that produces impressive results fairly quickly. ” The icing on the cake: It’s freaking only $10 — at least today.

Retinol is the guest of honor for restoring smoothness, of course. Meanwhile, bakuchiol shows up like a hype man to help boost the retinol’s efficacy while helping to calm the sensitivity that retinol can create. Hyaluronic acid joins the dance floor with moisture-surging and plumping moves. Then, squalene and vitamin E operate like bouncers to by providing barrier protection, moisturization and skin repair, respectively.

“I don’t look 20 again, but I think it has taken about 10 years off of me,” one reviewer, Susan, shared about the crow’s feet smoothing she’s seeing after using the stick.

People are using it for crow’s feet, undereye bags, their necks, chest wrinkles (often emerging from side-sleeping, by the way) and more! One 78-year-old man, RD, uses it on an enduring “11” that has formed on his forehead over time, and notes that he saw long-lasting improvement after a few fails with other products.

Another 42-year-old reviewer notes that their neck began to smooth out within two weeks of swiping the retinol stick there faithfully.

“I was convinced the only sure thing to do for MY wrinkles was to get Botox, which is expensive, at least for me,” shopper Lynette shared.

“But I did try it and I am Amazed… It does what it says it will do and it does what all of the reviews have said it will do… didn’t have to pay upwards of Hundreds of Dollars for something that I wasn’t even sure would help [or] that I would end up throwing away with all of the other products I have tried in the past.”

Another shopper, Cassandra, routinely uses Botox and higher-end beauty products, also notes what a pleasant surprise this stick is. “Smooths fine lines, brightened my eye area,” the Botox fan wrote. “Love this- everyone says my makeup looks great, but it’s the [eye stick].”

Note: We’ll continue to preach that you should always use retinol with sunscreen. Using anti-aging products (or, really, any skin care) without faithfully using a sunscreen is like going fishing with a hole in your boat. You might go somewhere, but it won’t be far.)

“I love that this product is so easy to apply. No messy lotions or serums, you just simply swipe the balm under your eyes for moisturized and smooth under eye skin. I use this every night because it’s quick and effective. You don’t really need to use that much, so it’s a great value for the price. I really did see an improvement in my under eye fine lines and wrinkles after a few weeks of consitent use. This is a keeper in my skin care routine!” — Tami

“I am 74 year old man. I do not have a lot of wrinkles in spite of my age, but I have always had the so called “11” lines between my eyebrows and they give me a “mean” look. I have tried different products for years that claim to fix the problem but nothing worked. One of the instant wrinkle smoothers worked well, but after a very few hours it flaked and the wrinkles were back. I decided to give this Retinol Eye Stick a try and it is working great. I use it on the 11 wrinkles and also on my under eye bags. I began to see improvement in the 11 after around 10 days and the under eye began looking better after two weeks. For the 11 wrinkles I rub the Retinol on the wrinkles and then rub it in with my fingers. The area will appear slightly red for a few minutes then go back to normal. I just ordered and received my second stick. I started using the product around Dec 31 I think. On average the stick lasts about a month. I am still seeing improvement as I use the product and at this rate I believe the 11 will be completely gone or at least not noticeable in another month. I will continue using the product from now on. The under eye looks much better and feels really good. I carry the stick to work and use it about four times a day. I will use it less times per day when the wrinkles are gone. It has no odor that I can detect. Great product! I think that if you try it you will tell the way it feels that it will work.” — RD

“I purchased this in mid June this year and shortly thereafter began using it. I always have 0 expectations for any new product I buy. So, I just used it and forgot about it. Then lately, I guess within the last two weeks or so, my eyes seem to be more alert looking. Taking a closer look, I discovered that my crow’s feet are nearly gone! So, it has been 2 months of use and sure enough, my eyelids look tighter and my skin a bit brighter. I mean, I kept wondering what was going on and then I remembered I was using this eye stick. Note although I am old, I do not naturally have bags or discoloration under my eyes. What I have was just light wrinkling and sagging skin. I don’t look 20 again, but I think it has taken about 10 years off of me.” — Susan

Everyone knows that movement is good for you. Yet, as we age, studies show that low-impact exercise is especially beneficial for the physical and cognitive health of older adults. If you’re looking for a low-impact exercise tool that will make a low impact on your wallet, we spotted a compact, adjustable rowing machine that’s loved by users in their 50, 60s, 70s and even 80s, for making working out more accessible and fun. Even better? It’s currently 20% off, if your fast enough to snag the lightning deal.

“Low-impact exercise” isn’t just a buzzword — it’s a classified form of movement that’s easer on the joints (psst: like using a rowing machine.)

Per the American Sport And Fitness Association, “low-impact exercise” means movements that don’t have forceful landings or cause “shock absorption” in your joints — like running and jumping do. Generally, these movements include having one foot on the ground at all times, making them a great option for older folks and people with mobility limitations, according to the National Library of Medicine.

Of course, something like indoor rowing (i.e., rowing on a rowing machine), an entirely seated exercise, lets you fluidly move and groove without lifting your feet at all. When you use a rowing machine, you engage your legs, arms and core, without putting vertical weight or extra stress on your body. In fact, a government study looking at the effects of indoor rowing on visually impaired people called it a “safe whole-body exercise,” noting that the stability of being seated and repetitive continuous motion of indoor rowing made it a great option for those with visual impairments or who struggle with balance.

In short: it’s compact, lightweight, easy to assemble, works out your whole body without wearing your out and comes with a great app. Plus, it’s a lot cheaper than similar models. As reviewer Carole wrote, “I’m an 86 year old female so if I can do it anyone can!”

The machine is designed with a sliding seat, strapped foot pedals and a spot to hold your phone. 12 levels of hydraulic resistance let you engage different muscle groups with the turn of a knob. A digital monitor helps track speed, time, calories burned, and more with the digital monitor.

With the rower, you’ll get free access to the brand’s app, offering over 1,000 trainer-led workouts, challenges, video tours and more.

People desiring more exercise as they age, dealing with chronic pain, or recovering from major surgeries swear the machine “gives you a decent workout” while still being “incredibly low impact.”

Unlike a treadmill or elliptical, this portable rowing machine lets you sit as you move. A reviewer who broke a vertebra falling down stairs said the machine came recommended by their physical therapist, “because it forces you to remain in the proper posture” and “will work your back without added tension,” they wrote. Another person recovering from an accident with “several injuries” wrote the machine “did not interfere with my healing but yet gave me the low impact exercise I needed.”

Reviewers call it “perfect for an older person who needs exercise without impact,” with a 70-year-old reviewer calling it “ideal” for bringing gentle movement to those who “haven’t exercised for years.”

Another reviewer in their 70s says the machine is “excellent for elderly workout,” especially if you are trying to get more movement for your health.

“I find that it exercises my core and arms and legs. I get into a steady rhythm that is not slow but not rapid either,” they said. “My aim is to get my heart beating, work up a sweat, and work on my core. I’ve lost ten pounds in two months, look slimmer, have fewer back issues due to a stronger core, and have even mitigated my COPD [chronic obstructive pulmonary disease] somewhat.”

Reviewers in their 80s love the machine for working “the entire body” and building range of motion in their legs. “My hip pain is greatly reduced because of the increased blood flow and my upper body strength is noticably improved,” one wrote. “Gives this 80 plus year old just the type of mild challenge that I found to be just right” another said.

There “could not be a more relaxing way to get fit,” one reviewer noted. And how is this? Fair question.

Because the machine is so easy to move and store, many use it around the house while watching TV or winding down for the day. “I use it in the morning while watching the news, then in the evening if I’m watching TV – makes me feel not-as-guilty for a relaxing night in,” reviewer Jane wrote. “Light to move around but doesn’t wobble when you’re on it,” reviewer Amy added. “Put it in front of the TV and row row row your boat to health,” noting that since rowing their “mood has increased drastically.”

Another who compliments how relaxing the continuous rowing motion is, says the machine provides a “full body workout while in a ‘flow’ state.” “If you love swimming, or swinging on swings, you’ll love this,” they said.

Basically, it’s a must-have for any exercise preferences, needs or challenges you’ve got going on!

Reviewers love this compact rowing machine for offering low-impact movement from the comfort of their home. Read more 5-star reviews and grab one on sale.

“I am an 80-yr-old with circulation problems, bad hip. This machine works the entire body and I get a good range of motion in the legs. My hip pain is greatly reduced because of the increased blood flow and my upper body strength is noticably improved. The machine was easy for me to assemble myself and light enough to move easily, the price exceedingly reasonable for the quality of the product and the resulting benefits.. Admittely, I use it with the least tension but over time, who knows?” — Amazon customer

“Very easy install. Light to move around but doesn’t wobble when you’re on it. It gives you a good workout if you put in the effort. Put it in front of the TV and row row row your boat to health! I’ve had this for two weeks now. I track my workouts with the ‘weights’ exercise on my fitbit. I am addicted to this. I average 45 minutes per day which my fitbit says is about 400 calories lost. My mood has increased drastically. I can tell my body is getting a workout. I can feel the burn’” — Amy

“I really didn’t expect something this nice for such a low price. The best bargain in-home exercise equipment I’ve encountered. Gives this 80 plus year old just the type of mild challenge that I found to be just right. It’s easy to make resistance adjustments to suit the level of training you’re interested in. Higher tension for strength or lower for a longer aerobic session. The device seems to be quite durable and sturdy even though it’s relatively light in weight. I more than 5-stars were available, I’d give this device an extra or two.” — geezerdly

“I had massive back surgery with 4 rods and 31 screws. I also had total bilateral knee replacements. I have struggled with finding a way to exercise especially for my upper back and arms that still exercised my legs. This little rowing machine is perfect without causing pain and strain against the rods. I had it assembled in 10 minutes. So light weight and easy to use, move and store. I highly recommend this product, not for serious athletes, but for older adults or anyone with limited ability to exercise due to health issues.” — Kelley F. Birk

“For an amateur rower this is a perfect thing for starters. It gives you a decent workout, and tightens your core, shoulders and back. It’s not super intense cardio like an elliptical or treadmill, but incredibly low impact. Also, this takes so little space, and folds up out of the way when I don’t need it.” — Tia H

“I purchased this as a 60+ year old female to help keep in shape over the winter. I love to walk, but always slack off in the cold weather. I wanted something low-tech, small, quiet (I live in an upper floor apartment) and fairly inexpensive. This checked all the boxes. I have been using it for 3 weeks now and have no issues. It’s doing exactly what I purchased it for!” — K Miller

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It’s time to turn on the ceiling fans and air conditioners, which means finally addressing the pile of dust and dander that collected in the vents and slats over winter. Whether you’re clearing cobwebs from high corners, washing windows or otherwise dusting hard-to-reach, high spots, reviewers say this under $40 versatile, extension pole makes cleaning easy, safe and even kind of fun — especially if you don’t like getting on ladders.

With an extendable pole reaching up to 20 feet and three interchangeable heads, you’ll find “so many uses” for this pole — you’ll wonder how you ever lived without it.

Say “goodbye” to standing on chairs or ladders trying to wave your normal duster at tight corners and “hello” to the joy of an extendable duster. The kit is comprised of a generous, 5-foot handle with cushioned grips and an extension pole that extends to 12 feet, letting you clean spaces up to 20 feet high.

“I can clean windows, fans, and my ceiling all while keeping my feet on the ground,” a reviewer who was tired of “dragging out” their big ladder for 16 years wrote. ”…Where have you been all my life?”

Of course, the pole would be nothing without the three easily changeable heads: a squeegee with chenille for windows, a fluffy microfiber duster and a puffy bristle head, specifically for grabbing cobwebs. The quality and variety of the heads make the pole a truly versatile home cleaning product.

“This is such a life saver,” one wrote. “I’ve been able to take down spider webs come along the eaves of the roof with ease by extending the sweep. I’m able to clean windows on the outside with another attachment.”

Fans appreciate the quality of the cleaner, noting that the heads are easy to clean and maintain. Plus, they enjoy how compact the kit can be when it’s not in use. “Great for cleaning out the high-corner cobwebs in attic or garage, but also telescopes down to an easily-stored size in your hall closet,” one said. “LOVE IT!”

Reviewers say it “saves a lot of work and having to get on my roof” or use ladders, making previously thankless cleaning “fun, satisfying and easy.”

Apart from sheer convenience, several people speak to the safety of the cleaning pole, letting you reach high heights safely from the ground.

“I’m in a wheelchair and have vaulted ceilings that I cannot access. I wouldn’t think of using a ladder,” one wrote. “I have tried two other extended pole dusters, and one wouldn’t reach while sitting, the other was too flimsy when extended. This one is close to perfect.”

“I’m not young and am afraid to get up on any ladder except my 3 ft one I keep in the house. That couldn’t do the trick,” another shared, noting after they got the duster, “the cobwebs didn’t stand a chance.”

“They were gone within 10 minutes of delivery,” they wrote. “I can reach the cold air intakes and little effort is required.”

A reviewer who worries about their husband bought the extender to limit his time on ladders. “I don’t know why I waited so long to buy this,” they wrote. “I can pull this out whenever I see a cobweb lurking in the corners and those nasty webs are gone in minutes.”

Whether you use the pole on ceiling fans, bookshelves, furniture or just awkward corners, the pole is sure to earn its keep in your home. Others say the kit is perfect for cleaning outside too, hitting dryer vent outlets, getting leaves off roofs, cleaning around security cameras and floodlights and more.

“It enables me to remove easily the insects and webs on my porch ceiling and from around the windows and other high areas around the outside of my home,” one wrote. “I look forward to using it to wash the outside of my windows as well. It’s a money saver!”

Reviewers love this extendable pole for taking their cleaning to new heights. Read more 5-star reviews and grab one for yourself.

“I have so many spiders that want to spend the winter at the edge of the ceilings to my long porches. Ha! Take that you spiders! Swept away with this superb tool. And all the Stink Bugs that have been pooping on the columns of the porches- yes- the Duster Kit tool to the rescue. A neat freak friend of mine who shares my love of cleaning told me about this wonderful buy. Just what a short person needs to reach everything including all the cobwebs at the top of the high ceilings. So many uses. The fans, the corners, the top of the furniture. Worth every penny” — Nashville Nancy

“Best purchase ever! I can reach the highest parts of my ceilings! We have used multiple attachments for various chores and love the ease of changing and having everything in one place.” — Jennifer Lamborn

“This kit is just what I needed to clean an elevated outside dryer vent outlet. It was easy to assemble the brush, and the telescoping arm is light enough to use from a ladder. It saves me a lot of work and having to get on my roof. I haven’t used the other attachments yet, but I was impressed with how easy it was to use for my purpose.” — Turtle

“This is such a life saver. I’ve been able to take down spider webs come along the eaves of the roof with ease by extending the sweep. I’m able to clean windows on the outside with another attachment. I think this is a great value.” — Barbara

“The great room in my home has a vaulted ceiling. I’m not young and am afraid to get up on any ladder except my 3 ft one I keep in the house. That couldn’t do the trick. Just got this product today. The cobwebs didn’t stand a chance. They were gone within 10 minutes of delivery. I can reach the cold air intakes and little effort is required. The pole is substantial. I may have to go to my daughter’s to demonstrate this!” — mary

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