
In a recent TikTok, former Tracy Beaker actor Dani Harmer spoke about her recent perimenopause diagnosis as she sought advice for her “thinning” hair.
The former Strictly Come Dancing contestant, 36, says her husband asked her to see her GP when he noticed her “whole personality had pretty much changed.”
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Before she learned she was perimenopausal, the star added, “I was so down”.
She continued, “I’ve struggled with depression and anxiety pretty much since I was a teenager, but there was something really different about me, and in myself, I knew that something was off”.
Dani said she had also been affected by brain fog, night sweats, and bad sleep, all of which are common signs of perimenopause.
Though some commenters were surprised to learn about the actor’s condition (with one TikTok user saying, “Whaaaat? You’re about 17 years old”), perimenopause in your 30s is perfectly possible.
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Here’s what perimenopause means, 62 of its signs, and what to do if you suspect it (like Dani, you should seek help if you struggle with any symptoms).
What is perimenopause, and why can it start in your 30s?
Perimenopause is “when you have symptoms of menopause but your periods have not stopped,” the NHS says.
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You are officially in menopause when you have not had your period for 12 months.
The average age to start menopause in the UK is 51. You count as being in “early” menopause if it begins before you turn 45, and “premature” menopause if you’re under 40, the NHS says.
But perimenopause can start as many as 14 years before menopause officially begins. Cleveland Clinic says perimenopause can start “as early as your mid-30s or as late as your mid-50s”.
Just because your periods don’t stop during perimenopause doesn’t mean it can’t “have a big impact on your life, including relationships and work,” the NHS says.
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Anxiety, mood swings, brain fog, hot flushes and irregular periods are common signs.
Don’t wait until you lose your period to see your GP about perimenopause symptoms if they’re affecting your life.
What are the symptoms of perimenopause?
The symptoms of perimenopause are the same as those of menopause, minus the absence of periods. Some women will experience them at different levels of intensity during menopause or perimenopause.
Some signs, like irregular periods, will be more noticeable during perimenopause.
A BMC Women’s Health study found that, on average, people experiencing menopause or perimenopause had about 10.7 symptoms.
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Menopause care specialist Dr Naomi Potter previously shared 62 possible symptoms with HuffPost UK, which are:
- Palpitations
- Chest pain
- Breast tenderness
- Itchy skin
- Dry skin
- Rosacea
- Acne
- Thin skin
- Collagen loss
- Crying
- Brain fog
- Memory loss
- Poor concentration
- Difficulty finding the right words
- Anxiety
- Low mood
- Worsening PMS
- Anger or rage
- Irritability
- Headache
- Migraines
- Joint pain
- Joint stiffness
- Vaginal dryness
- Vaginal discharge
- Vulval itch
- Perineal itch
- Vulval/vaginal ‘electric shocks’
- Increase in thrush
- Increase in bacterial vaginosis
- Poor libido
- High libido
- Weight gain
- Hair loss (on your scalp)
- Unwanted hair growth
- Urinary infections
- Urinary incontinence
- Urinary urgency
- Nocturia (getting up at night to pee)
- Sexual dysfunction
- Chest tightness
- Constipation
- Gastric reflux
- Fatigue
- Night sweats
- Hot flushes
- Cold flushes
- Increased period frequency
- Decreased period frequency
- Heavier periods
- Muscle loss
- Tinnitus
- Dry eyes
- Watery eyes
- Burning mouth
- Gum disease
- Foot pain
- Frozen shoulder
- Insomnia
- Histamine sensitivity
- New allergy
- Body odour change.
What if I think I’m perimenopausal?
It bears repeating ― don’t wait until menopause begins to see your GP if you are experiencing symptoms, no matter what age you are.
Even if you aren’t in perimenopause, the symptoms are worth investigating.
And if you are, hormone replacement therapy (HRT) can help replace the oestrogen and progesterone your body loses during menopause and perimenopause.
According to the NHS, “The main benefit of HRT is that it can help relieve most menopause and perimenopause symptoms, including hot flushes, brain fog, joint pains, mood swings and vaginal dryness”.
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Dani has said, “I’m really glad that I went and I got help. My doctor was more than happy to put me on HRT, and I’ve been on it for about 18 months now”.
She says her symptoms have mostly gone, except for hair thinning and the occasional hot flush.
Your doctor can help you to work out which solutions are best for you, so speak to a professional as soon as you notice symptoms.




















