Cooking rice sounds easy, but making it truly perfect is surprisingly challenging.
Experts say that rinsing the grains, picking great varieties, and even cooking rice in the oven can help you to achieve fluffy bliss at home.
But even though I pride myself on my stovetop method, which took years to perfect, I still sometimes find that the side is more or less cooked than I expected after completing the absorption method.
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This involves letting rice steam in a lidded pot with the hob turned off for at least 10 minutes after all the water has boiled out of the pan.
According to one chef, though, a simple sight test can confirm whether your rice is perfectly cooked or not.
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If rice stands up, it’s perfectly cooked, says chef
Sometimes, once the water has cooked away, I notice that the grains of rice in my saucepan all “stand up” at the top, as if they’re looking up at me.
Like me, she lets the rice sit for 10 minutes after cooking it, so that the steam trapped under the lid makes it “fluffy”.
Once it was done, she showed her Instagram followers a pan full of rice which, also like mine, seemed to be standing on its end.
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“You see how these rice grains are actually standing up, like, at attention?” she said. “That’s how you know that this is properly-cooked rice.”
It likely happens when the grains are steamed at the end of cooking. However, it’s not the only way to test its doneness.
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How else can I tell if rice is cooked?
If you ask the late Julia Child, the secret lies under the channels (gaps) that steam makes in the rice as it cooks.
In a video showcasing the technique, she previously said: “If you notice, there are those little holes… but you can still see… liquid” at their base when the rice isn’t cooked.
But, she added, when the rice is done, you can “lift up an edge [of rice] and tilt the pan, and if there’s no liquid there” that means it’s good to go.
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BBC Good Food, meanwhile, advises: “Check the rice is cooked at the end by trying a grain – this should also be indicated by the appearance of small holes on the surface and all the water having been absorbed.”
It was given to 663 people with poorly-managed hypertension (high blood pressure) alongside their existing treatment.
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The participants’ hypertension was not well managed with their existing medication.
The results, published in JAMA Network, suggest these injections may have the potential to “help millions with high blood pressure”, Queen Mary University of London, whose researchers led the study, said.
What did the injections do?
In this study, participants were given a dose of zilebesiran alongside their usual treatment.
Zilebesiran stops the production of a protein called angiotensinogen in the liver. Blocking that protein helps blood vessels to relax, thus lowering blood pressure.
The hypertension of the participants in this study was better-managed with the assistance of angiotensinogen injections alongside the “normal” medication, which, for one reason or another, was not working optimally for them.
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The drug, which is far longer-lasting than medication which patients may have to take daily, matters because blood pressure is both hard to spot and vital to consistently treat.
It can lead to heart attacks and strokes if left unmanaged. It usually has no symptoms and is “very common,” the NHS said.
KARDIA-3, a follow-up project, will investigate the effects of zilebesiran on people with high blood pressure and established cardiovascular disease, as well as people at risk of heart conditions.
And a large global outcomes study is set later this year to see how it affects stroke, heart disease, and cardiovascular event risk.
The study’s lead investigator, Dr Manish Saxena, said: “Hypertension is a global health concern as blood pressure control rates remain poor and is a leading cause of heart attacks and strokes.
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“This study demonstrates the efficacy and safety of zilebesiran when added to commonly used first-line blood pressure-lowering drugs. The novelty of this treatment is its long duration; giving just one injection every six months could help millions of patients to better manage their condition.”
In fact, I know three people who’ve had colds on and off for the past two months or so – just as it seems to get better, new symptoms start to reappear.
Speaking to HuffPost UK previously, Dr Suzanne Wylie, GP and medical adviser for IQdoctor, said it’s quite common to see “a combination of genuine influenza, circulating Covid-19 variants, RSV, and other viral illnesses that overlap in symptoms and timing”.
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Here, the superintendent pharmacist and director of Pyramid Pharmacy Group, Amir Bhogal, explains why colds can recur and what to do about it.
“When you’re under sustained pressure, your body produces elevated levels of cortisol, a stress hormone that actively suppresses your immune response. This reduces the production of white blood cells responsible for fighting infections, making them less effective at responding to threats.
“Due to this, you can become more susceptible to catching colds, and your body may struggle to clear infections once they’ve taken hold.”
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If possible, try to rest and de-stress if your colds keep coming back.
“During deep sleep, your body increases production of cytokines, proteins that play a central role in immune function and inflammation control,” he explained.
“When you’re sleep deprived, this process doesn’t happen properly. Instead, your immune response weakens, and your body loses the opportunity to repair itself. In reality, pushing through a cold whilst maintaining your normal schedule can prolong your symptoms and make it harder for your body to recover fully.”
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Getting seven to nine hours of sleep is crucial, if you can – try “painkillers, saline rinses, or throat lozenges” if symptoms keep you up at night.
3) Smoking
This not only affects your immune system, the expert said, but also “compromises lung function, making it harder for your body to clear infections”.
Additionally, “smokers typically experience worse symptoms and longer recovery times”.
“When you’re ready to quit, some pharmacies, such as Pyramid Pharmacy Group, offer smoking cessation services which typically include nicotine replacement therapy as well as ongoing support for those who are struggling with withdrawals.”
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4) Booze
Alcohol also harms your immune system. “It reduces the activity of key immune cells involved in fighting infections, while also contributing to dehydration and disrupted sleep, both of which are essential for recovery,” Bhogal said.
Even a little drinking can have an outsized impact, he added, so try to rein it in when you’re not feeling the best.
5) Close contact environments
Parents are all too aware how easily diseases spread in close contact environments like schools and nurseries.
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This is true, Bhogal said, for places like open-plan offices too.
“If you’re regularly exposed to others who are unwell, you’re at higher risk of catching successive colds, rather than dealing with one persistent infection,” he said.
To avoid this, make sure to practise good hand hygiene, keep your distance from visibly unwell people, and stay home if you’re sick yourself.
6) Underlying health conditions
Sometimes, recurring colds can signal something else is going on with your immune system, said Bhogal.
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“Immunocompromised individuals are more susceptible to infections and may take longer to recover. Beyond that, viral infections can also lead to secondary bacterial infections like acute bronchitis or sinus infections, which require different treatment approaches,” he said.
“If your symptoms aren’t improving after two weeks, seeking guidance from a qualified medical professional is sensible. They can rule out complications and identify underlying causes of repeat infection.”
But what about your “psychological immune system”?
The term, which was first coined in the ’90s, suggests our minds could have protective mechanisms, including cognitive “antibodies,” similar to those which protect us from phsyical disease.
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Here, we asked Dr William Van Gordon, Associate Professor in Contemplative Psychology at the University of Derby, what the term means, as well as how to strengthen ours.
What is the “psychological immune system”?
“The psychological immune system is a concept developed by psychologists Daniel Gilbert and Timothy Wilson in the late 1990s.
“It describes the brain’s automatic, largely unconscious defences that protect emotional well-being in the face of negative events, much like how the physical immune system fights pathogens,” Dr Van Gordon told us.
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Some feel that having a stronger “psychological immune system” can help us to weather negative events, even those you anticipate would be devastating.
“These processes help us to reframe setbacks positively, restore self-worth, diminish the intensity and duration of distress, and recover more quickly than we typically predict,” the professor added.
“We often overestimate how devastated we will feel after failures, rejections, or losses because we underestimate this built-in resilience system.”
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How can I boost my “psychological immune system”?
Dr Van Gordon shared “four strategies that can strengthen your psychological immune system and improve emotional recovery and calmness”.
These are:
1) Shift from negative to neutral
“Counter the brain’s natural negativity bias by deliberately moving toward a balanced, neutral perspective rather than trying to force positivity,” the professor said.
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Our mind’s negativity bias means we pay more attention to negative thoughts and experiences than we do positive ones, potentially skewing our views.
“Use simple grounding tools such as brief mantras (‘This too shall pass’), short gratitude reflections, recalling times you’ve overcome similar challenges, or slow diaphragmatic breathing to calm the nervous system.”
2) Anchor in the present
“Focus attention on what is controllable right now to interrupt rumination about the past or anxiety about the future,” said the expert.
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“Build small daily habits of mindfulness (for example, one to two minutes of breath awareness), protect sleep quality to restore cognitive clarity, and create routines that break negative thought loops and restore motivation, such as morning journaling or quick walks.”
3) Reconnect with meaning and purpose
“When adversity strikes, reframe the situation through your core values or long-term goals; for example, by viewing a difficult experience as an opportunity to grow skills or character,” he continued.
“Practise self-compassion, seek trusted perspectives from others, or visualise how the challenge fits into a bigger, meaningful picture.”
4) Practise healthy acceptance
“Allow difficult emotions to arise without suppression or denial, especially after significant loss or trauma,” Dr Van Gordon ended.
“Recognise that feelings such as sadness or anger carry important signals; treat yourself kindly during the process and, if distress persists, consider professional support rather than forcing ‘positive thinking’ alone.”
That marks the start of British Summer Time (BST). And because the clocks hop forward, sunsets begin an hour earlier than usual – as the summer sun reaches us, the sunsets will increasingly start later.
Which begs the question of: when oh when will we have 8pm sunsets again?
That means certain parts of the UK may get 8pm sunsets earlier than others. For instance, Fermanagh in Northern Ireland is expected to get an 8pm sunset the day the clocks change (29 March).
But builder William Willett advocated for it heavily because he was frustrated to see people “wasting” summer morning light by sleeping through early sunrises.
The European Parliament has backed a proposal to scrap it, and the Royal Society for the Prevention of Accidents has also called for the same many times.
According to neurologist Dr Richard Restak’s book How To Prevent Dementia, “Cognitive reserve theory refers to the representation stored within the brain of the knowledge, experience, and life events that accumulate during the course of a person’s lifetime”.
The more “cognitive reserve” we have, he explained, the better we might be protected against conditions like dementia. “A lifetime investment in building up cognitive reserve leads to healthy cognition and thinking later in life,” he wrote.
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Dr Restak called reading fiction “perhaps the single most effective” way to build this up.
But Alzheimer’s Research UK, who have launched a Think Brain Health campaign this year, are releasing brain teasers to help us build up our reserves, which they say can be done in quiet moments like during your commut.
Challenging our brains is good for us – but may be falling out of style
Alzheimer’s UK found that only 30% of UK adults do “brain-teasing” activities like soduko and crosswords, while 32% say they do them less often now than they did a year ago.
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And even though 71% of us have free time on public transport, 68% of us use that period to scroll through our phones or watch shows, they wrote.
So, the foundation has created a brain teaser to help people fill gaps like those in their schedule. They began by launching an image which hides 40 train station names, created with artist Chris Bishop.
“Research suggests that there are steps we can all take to protect our brain health and build our cognitive reserve, making our brains more resilient no matter what age we start,” Dr Jacqui Hanley, Head of Research at Alzheimer’s Research UK, said.
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“If someone with a high cognitive reserve develops dementia, studies have found that they typically experience Alzheimer’s symptoms around five years later than those who don’t regularly challenge their brains.
“It’s never too early to make positive lifestyle changes, and this brain-teasing puzzle is a great way to introduce brain challenges into your daily routine”.
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How many train station names can you find in this image?
For their first brain teaser, Alzheimer’s Research UK shared an image created with artist Chris Bishop and released with support from Great Western Railway.
It contains 40 hidden train station names in the UK. And if, like me, you find the image truly challenging, Alzheimer’s UK said, “This puzzle has been designed to help you challenge your brain, so don’t worry if you didn’t find them all”.
After all, Dan Panes, Head of External Communications at Great Western Railway, said, “This puzzle had some of our colleagues scratching their heads!”
We’ve all been there: mid-story, mid-vent, mid-enthusiastic ramble, and suddenly the other person’s energy shifts. Their smile fades. Their eyes wander down to their phone. Their whole body seems to quietly scream: “Please stop.”
Most of us don’t realise when we’re annoying someone. We just think we’re being ourselves.
We might think we’re offering the type of advice our spouse really needs to hear right now. We think sharing our story from last night’s gym session is just as funny to our friend as it was to us. Or we might (wrongly) assume that filling the silence with the latest story about our cat is a welcomed icebreaker for our co-workers in the break room.
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But what might feel normal or relieving to us can feel like irritation to another.
The thing about annoyance is that it’s rarely announced out loud. People – whether on the playground or in the office – are often too polite to say, “Hey, you’re annoying me right now.” Instead, it shows up through subtle changes in posture, facial expressions, tone and attention.
While we might not always be liked by everyone, which is totally normal, if we’re not quick to notice the signs that we’re annoying someone, we might continue not reading the room and further alienate the people around us.
According to the licensed psychologists HuffPost spoke with, these quiet cues are often more honest than words. Here are the body language signs to watch for when you’re annoying someone.
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Their face gives them away
Not everyone has a poker face – no matter how hard they might try.
“Annoyance may first appear in a person’s face,” says Dr. Michele Leno, a licensed psychologist and host of Mind Matters with Dr. Michele.
Subtle eye-rolling, a sudden blank expression or looking away while you’re talking – these are all red flags that you’re annoying someone.
“When someone is irritated, their nervous system activates a mild fight-or-flight response,” Leno explained. “Micro-expressions – like an eye roll – are quick, unconscious ways the body tries to release tension.”
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In other words: even if they’re still nodding politely, their face may already be telling you how they really feel.
They look at their phone
This one is pretty much universal. “When someone looks at their phone, it often shows boredom or annoyance,” Samantha Whiten, a clinical psychologist, told HuffPost. “They’re using a socially sanctioned way to get out of talking to you and hoping you take the hint.”
In today’s always connected culture, phones provide an easy escape. But when someone is genuinely interested in you, they stay engaged, and if they do get interrupted, they usually apologise and try to come back to the conversation.
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If you continuously encounter someone gazing down at their phone when you open your mouth, chances are, you annoy them.
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If you continuously encounter someone gazing down at their phone when you open your mouth, chances are, you annoy them.
They start distancing themselves
If someone is annoyed with you, you may feel them pulling away – emotionally, physically or both.
“Did they walk away when you entered the room? Did they indirectly refuse to engage in conversation with you? If so, you may annoy them,” Leno said.
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They may avoid you by declining invitations that include you. Texts might become sporadic or ultimately leave you on read.
It’s hard not to take this behaviour personally, but as Leno notes, people typically act like this when they feel “overwhelmed, and in an effort to protect their personal space, they keep their distance.
A person’s emotional bandwidth may not accommodate anxiety-producing situations, so they remove themselves as needed.”
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They sigh, fidget or take deep breaths
Those exaggerated inhales you heard from your co-worker when you started talking about your latest Netflix obsession? They’re not random.
“We need to protect our well-being at all times,” Leno said. So behaviours like deep breaths, fidgeting or shifting in place, she said, are all physical attempts to calm the nervous system and reset when tension is building, aka when you’re annoying someone.
If someone suddenly starts sighing or picking at their fingernails while you’re talking, it may be their body signalling overload.
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Their arms cross over their chest
Seeing someone with crossed arms doesn’t necessarily mean you have to hike up the thermostat at work – it’s often about protection.
“This is a defensive posture,” Whiten said. “The person is trying to put up a virtual shield.” If crossed arms are paired with looking away, a lack of smiling or silence, it’s a strong sign the person feels intruded on or overwhelmed.
That’s your cue to give them space.
Their tone changes
Listen not just to what a person says to you but how they say it.
“If a person goes from calm and engaged to flat or high-pitched, they may be attempting to reduce tension,” Leno said. Short answers like “yes” or “no” when more detail would normally come are another giveaway. This goes for text messages too.
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Tone shifts often happen when someone wants out of a conversation but doesn’t feel comfortable saying it.
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Tone shifts often happen when someone wants out of a conversation but doesn’t feel comfortable saying it.
They yawn – openly
Most adults can usually control their yawns. So when someone yawns right in front of you?
“Some part of them is hoping you’ll notice and disengage,” Whiten said. ”If someone combines this with looking away or an unsmiling or quiet demeanour, it is best to conclude that you may be irritating or overwhelming them, and move to talk to another person.”
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What to do if you realise you’ve annoyed someone
First: pause. “Listen without offering advice or judgment,” Leno said. “Ask what is needed instead of assuming.” Simply slowing down and being curious can de-escalate tension quickly.
The simplest tool to become more self-aware of your behaviour? Watch how people respond to you.
“The best way to understand how your behaviour affects others is to notice their reactions to your presence,” Leno said.
And if you suspect something is off, a gentle, honest conversation can help clear the air.
At the same time, it’s OK to accept that not everyone will love your communication style. “It’s important to be authentic,” Leno said. “If someone is unreasonably irritated by who you are, it may be healthier to create distance than to contort yourself to please them.”
Most people judge an avocado’s readiness by one simple test: a gentle squeeze. Too firm, and it stays on the counter. Too soft, and it risks going straight into the bin. (Yes, we agree, the window between those two states often feels comically short. But that’s fodder for another story).
Beyond texture and taste, though, the ripeness of an avocado actually shapes how your body digests it, absorbs its nutrients, and even responds metabolically after you eat it.
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In fact, as avocados ripen, their internal chemistry changes. Fats become more accessible, carbohydrates shift form, and antioxidant levels rise and fall. According to doctors and nutrition experts, these changes can influence digestion, blood sugar response and nutrient absorption.
That’s all to say that an avocado’s health benefits aren’t fixed but actually evolve as the fruit matures – just as is the case with bananas.
Why avocado ripeness matters
When an avocado ripens, “there is a shift in the nutritional structure and absorption,” said Dr. Parth Bhavsar, a board-certified family medicine physician who specialises in nutrition.
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Specifically, as time goes by, enzymes break down cell walls, which makes fats easier for the body to absorb. This also affects carotenoids like lutein and beta-carotene, whose bioavailability improves in a fat-rich environment.
Dr. Cintara Bradley, a resident physician at Sonoran University of Health Sciences Medical Center who specialises in nutrition, lifestyle management and digestive health, noted that ripening significantly changes lipid content, carbohydrate composition, amino acid availability and phenolic compounds.
While avocados remain nutrient-dense throughout their life cycle, the ratios of fats, fibre and antioxidants shift quickly as they approach and move past peak ripeness.
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Unripe avocados
Unripe avocados are firm and difficult to eat for a reason. When an avocado hasn’t ripened yet, your body has a harder time breaking it down. At this stage, much of the starch hasn’t converted into more usable forms, the fats aren’t as easy to absorb, and the fibre is tougher.
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Bhavsar explained that unripe avocados contain resistant starch and “less accessible lipids,” meaning your body can’t easily access all of the calories and nutrients during digestion. In practical terms, you’re getting less nutritional payoff from each bite.
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There may be a small metabolic benefit, though. “Resistant starch resists the metabolic process and the post-prandial increase of blood sugar concentration,” Bhavsar said. Put simply: Unripe avocados digest more slowly and may help prevent blood sugar spikes after eating. He added that this process can support insulin sensitivity and gut bacteria balance.
Dr. Patrick Ryan, a primary care and sports medicine physician in San Diego and the founder of telehealth platform HemyRX, similarly noted that unripe avocados may help with glycemic control because glucose is absorbed more slowly.
Still, most experts say this stage isn’t ideal for everyday eating. Bhavsar pointed out that slow digestion and gastrointestinal discomfort can make unripe avocados unpleasant or hard on the stomach. And according to Bradley, unripe avocados don’t offer meaningful advantages over ripe ones, especially since avocados already have a low glycemic load, regardless of ripeness.
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Barely ripe avocados
As avocados begin to soften, they also become easier for your body to handle. The tough starches start breaking down and the healthy fats inside the fruit become easier to absorb.
As Bhavsar put it, “resistant starch is gradually turning into non-resistant fats, while your levels of soluble fibres are increasing.” This means your body can access more nutrients without losing the fibre that helps you feel full.
Ryan explained that barely ripe avocados are easier to digest than unripe ones, while still slowing how quickly sugar enters the bloodstream. They also contain less fat than fully ripe avocados, which can be helpful for people who want the benefits of avocado without feeling weighed down.
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Bhavsar added that avocados that gently yield when pressed can help control appetite and keep blood sugar steady. Because they are digested more slowly, they help prevent blood sugar spikes while still allowing your body to absorb key nutrients.
Fully ripe avocados
Fully ripe avocados give your body the most nutrients it can actually use in the easiest way for your body to absorb them, Bhavsar said.
According to Ryan, ripe avocados also help your body take in antioxidants and fat-soluble vitamins, which support heart health, balance hormones and reduce inflammation.
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Bradley pointed out that antioxidants, especially phenolic compounds, are highest when the avocado is perfectly ripe, before enzymes start breaking them down. Other vitamins and minerals, like potassium, magnesium and folate, stay steady, while fats become fully available.
Because the fat is fully accessible, calories are higher at this stage. Ryan noted this matters for people who are watching calories and Bhavsar said portion size is key (though even fully ripe avocados are still healthier than refined carbs), but one thing is clear: Avocados that are fully ripe are at their peak in terms of flavour and variety of nutrients offered.
Overripe avocados
Once an avocado passes peak ripeness, oxidation begins to affect its nutritional quality. Bhavsar explained that while fats, fibres and minerals remain, antioxidant properties decline. “Browning signals an indicator that polyphenols, with potential health benefits, are being broken down and will instead ferment,” he said.
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Bradley noted that oxidised fats contribute to bitterness while antioxidant levels diminish dramatically. However, if an avocado has only minor browning and no mould or odour, it can still be safely used in smoothies or baking.
So, is there an ideal ripeness?
The answer depends on your goals. Bhavsar suggested that “lightly to gently ripe” avocados optimise fat assimilation and satiety, while barely ripe may be preferable for gastrointestinal regulation.
Ryan agreed that ripe avocados work best for most people, but noted that blood sugar control or calorie awareness may influence preference.
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Bradley, on the other hand, said that peak ripeness offers the best balance of nutrient density, bioavailability and enjoyment.
In short, it’s clearly not just about flavour: the ripeness of an avocado actually changes how (and what!) your body digests and absorbs.
With a last name like Bologna, I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised that I am one of many Italian Americans who love travelling to “Il Bel Paese”. Italy is by far my most-visited destination outside the United States, and I’ve been fortunate to spend time in eight of the country’s 20 regions.
Although delicious foods are available in abundance across Italy, I recently explored an area that should probably be high up on cheese lovers’ travel bucket lists: Parma.
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As you might’ve deduced, Parma – along with its neighbour Reggio Emilia – is the namesake of the beloved hard cheese, Parmigiano Reggiano.
The so-called “king of cheeses” can, in fact, only be legally produced under that name in those two provinces, plus Modena, Mantova and Bologna.
The Parmigiano Reggiano moment
It’s no secret that Parmigiano Reggiano is having a moment, finding its way into headlines (and bellies) around the world. This past November, news broke that United Talent Agency had signed the Parmigiano Reggiano Consortium to help place the cheese in movies and shows and raise awareness about these official products.
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That came just two months after the governing body for the Italian cheese announced a strategic partnership with the New York Jets football team – an initiative that included stadium concession offerings, video segments and more.
Around the 2024 Paris Olympics, Parmigiano Reggiano also made waves as fans of Italian gymnast Giorgia Villa discovered her previous sponsorship deal with the consortium – completewithamazingphotos of the athlete posing with big wheels of cheese. (Whether we’ll be seeing more cheese-y sponsorships at the upcoming Milan-Cortina Olympics remains to be seen, but given the host location and the consortium’s PR push, the synergy feels almost inevitable.)
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My visit to Parma included a stop at Azienda Agricola Bertinelli, a family-owned dairy that offers Parmigiano Reggiano tastings and tours to educate visitors about the production process behind this highly regulated cheese.
And then there are the seemingly endless socialmediavideos of mouthwatering pasta prepared in hollowed-out wheels of Parmigiano Reggiano tableside at restaurants and in home kitchens. The Italian brainrot trend naturally featured a “Parmigiano” character as well.
I was pumped to visit the home of the king of cheeses in Parma, a lovely province and city in Italy’s Emilia-Romagna region.
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Despite its world-famous food exports, Parma still flies under the radar compared to flashier Italian destinations that dominate most itineraries, like Florence, Rome and Venice. And as it turns out, there’s plenty to do there beyond stuffing your face with dairy goodness.
What to eat in Parma
Reaching Parma is fairly easy. You can drive from Milan in less than two hours or take the train from many destinations around Italy, including Milan, Bologna, Florence, Venice and more. The train station was a breezy stroll to the centre of the action and the whole city felt very walkable.
As the first Italian destination to earn UNESCO’s “City of Gastronomy” title, Parma is unsurprisingly filled with excellent eateries. I had great multi-course meals at Cortex and Croce di Malta, wine and snacks at Tra L’uss e L’asa and Tabarro, and sandwiches at Pepen and Bel Grano Focaccia.
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Other restaurants recommended by locals in town included Osteria del 36, Ombre Rosse, Ristorante Cocchi, Trattoria Corrieri and Trattoria del Tribunale.
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Cured meat and torta fritta are local staples.
In the broader province of Parma, I dined at Trattoria Antichi Sapori, Al Vedel and Trattoria Ai Due Platani. But the most exciting stop was Azienda Agricola Bertinelli, a family-owned dairy that offers Parmigiano Reggiano tastings and tours to educate visitors about the production process behind this highly regulated cheese.
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Indeed, authentic Parmigiano Reggiano can only be made using three ingredients: raw cow’s milk, salt and rennet. Each wheel is aged for a minimum of 12 months, with most varieties on the market aged between 24 and 36 months.
Beyond the cheese, Parma’s rich food culture also centres on the iconic Prosciutto di Parma and highly-prized Culatello di Zibello, aka the “king of salumi” – a rare cured meat that’s aged in a pig’s bladder. Cold cuts in the province are often served with torta fritta, a puffy fried dough.
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I had the chance to try Culatello di Zibello and “Duchess of Parma” cake.
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Local restaurants tend to offer tortelli d’erbetta (pasta stuffed with cheese and greens), anolini in brodo (beef-filled pasta in broth) and a minced horse meat delicacy known as caval pist.
Other highlights of a Parma trip
Although my Parma visit understandably centred around food, I also took some time to explore the history of the city and province in between meals.
The Palazzo della Pilotta complex houses multiple interesting museums and sites, including the National Gallery of Parma, the National Archaeological Museum and the Bodoni Museum. The Palatina Library is particularly stunning, as is the wooden Farnese Theater, one of the largest baroque theatres in Europe.
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Beyond food, visitors to Parma can check out sites like the Palatina Library and Parma Cathedral.
Just across the street is the Glauco Lombardi Museum, a unique museum featuring personal belongings and items related to the life and times of Napoleon’s second wife, Marie Louise, Duchess of Parma. I fittingly followed my visit with a mini “Duchess of Parma” cake at a nearby cafe called San Biagio.
The impressive Parma Cathedral and octagonal baptistery next door were also worthwhile stops on my trip. The same goes for the Correggio frescoes in the former Monastery of San Paolo.
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And I enjoyed strolling the Piazza Giuseppe Garibaldi and Parco Ducale in the afternoons, embracing the “slow travel” ethos and getting a real feel for the city.
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I ventured to Modena to try some authentic balsamic vinegar and then strolled around Piazza Giuseppe Garibaldi back in Parma.
Visitors to Parma can also add stops in other parts of the Emilia-Romagna region or plan a few easy half-day jaunts. I visited a small balsamic vinegar producer, Acetaia di Giorgio, in Modena and had lunch at the Michelin-starred Osteria del Viandante in Reggio Emilia. Many people also add in the Ferrari and Lamborghini museum experiences as well.
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At a time when overtourism is straining destinations like Florence, Rome, Venice and the Amalfi Coast, travellers craving a relaxing and authentic Italian experience might want to consider adding Parma to their itineraries.
And if travel budgets are tight, a taste of real Parmigiano Reggiano at home may also help scratch the itch in the meantime.
And, new research from ODEON suggests, the “emotional weight” of the month doesn’t reach a single peak, as the debunked Blue Monday would suggest. Instead, the low mood many feel in the first few weeks of the year is felt pretty uniformly across January.
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Conducted with mental health charity Mind, the results of the survey suggested that people want to be around one another this month without the pressure of too much chat; a move they call “quiet coping”.
How does January affect our mood?
In this research, respondents said that for them, January was linked to tiredness and exhaustion (32%), lack of motivation (31%) and feeling flat or emotionally low (30%).
Only 9% associate January primarily with sadness.
48% of UK adults say January makes them feel pressured to improve themselves or “start over,” even if they don’t really feel emotionally ready.
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36%, meanwhile, said they want to socialise less often, but don’t fancy total isolation.
Instead, they said they crave low-pressure social plans (15%), simply recharging by themselves (38%), talking to a close friend or confidant (21%), and focusing on their routine (36%) to “quietly cope”.
Suzie Welch, Managing Director of ODEON UKI, said: “For many people, coping quietly, through familiarity, shared spaces and experiences that don’t demand conversation or explanation, is what helps them get through the start of the year.
“Our partnership with Mind continues to be about recognising those quieter moments and making space for people to feel welcome exactly as they are.”
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All of which is to say there’s no need to force yourself into January burnout – “quiet coping” can be all about forging time for yourself and not placing too much pressure on social engagements if you need it to be.
Help and support:
Mind, open Monday to Friday, 9am-6pm on 0300 123 3393.
Samaritans offers a listening service which is open 24 hours a day, on 116 123 (UK and ROI – this number is FREE to call and will not appear on your phone bill).
CALM (the Campaign Against Living Miserably) offer a helpline open 5pm-midnight, 365 days a year, on 0800 58 58 58, and a webchat service.
The Mix is a free support service for people under 25. Call 0808 808 4994 or email help@themix.org.uk
Rethink Mental Illness offers practical help through its advice line which can be reached on 0808 801 0525 (Monday to Friday 10am-4pm). More info can be found on rethink.org.